I might be completely wrong here, but the odd issues I've sometimes seen with my GTX 780 3-way SLI was all related to BIOS VCCSA voltage. It feeds the PCI-E controller as well as memory controller.
Try setting it manually if not already and try either lowering or increasing it (between 0.9 - 1.2 V should be safe).
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