That will not help, aquantia have its own firmware on the aqc chip itself... Bios/Mei will not help.
Maybe drivers would help, but i dont believe that too... The aqc itself is crap, we have here 5 different workstations, with 4 with build in aqc107 (1x r6e / 2x asrock fatality x299 / 1x imac pro) and one as pcie card from asus because its cheap compared to intel...
Only the imac pro we dont have packet errors at all... The pcie card is better but has still some packet loses... All others are just unuseable, with 1gbe they are all ok, but the onboard i219v is still far better, because of offloading.
So we buyed x540/x710 intel pcie cards and its working perfectly...
The x299 boards have enough slots, thats why i say, just buy an intel card and good is...
Thats not an asus fault, because asrock have exactly same issues and there are no other onboard 10gbe chips available.
If just dont have the Money for the intel card and you need 10gbe, try to cool the aqc chip somehow on the board, i dont believe that it will help, but thats the only thing along with drivers, which could help.
However, ive spend much time on the aqc crap, so dont waste your time, ive just didnt tryed to cool it.
But there is a way to flash the apple firmware on the aqc controller, ive didnt tryed too, but i can give you a link if you dont have any other option.
Cheers:-)