Lower voltages are always better. I would ask how much over 1.35v? I don't see your exact memory module part number listed in your sig or specs, but typically 1.35v is the rated voltage for Vengeance XMP 3200MHz profile and you should have no issues achieving that with your mobo/CPU combo at that voltage.
The thing is there's no way to predict with any guarantee the properties of your CPU silicon and IMC and degradation over time.
With that said and at your own risk, if you can stay within +/- 1%, you should probably be OK for daily use.
Have a look here
http://www.legitreviews.com/what-is-the-safe-voltage-range-for-ddr4-memory-overclocking_150115
Other systems in addition to rig in the profile specs:
Aorus Master x570, 3950X, 32GB GSkill c16 @3800, Sabrent PCIe4 1TB, Sabrent 1TB, 860Evo 1TB, 2080 Super, HX1200i, Celsius S36, Define S2, pg348q
Aorus Master x570, 3900X, 32GB GSkill c16 @3800, Sabrent PCIe4 1TB, 860Evo 1TB, 5700XT, HX1000i, H150i Pro, Obsidian 500D, LG32GK650F-B
MEG x570 Unify, 3800X, 32GB GSkill c16 @3800, Sabrent PCIe4 1TB, 860Evo 1TB, GTX1080Ti, SSR-850PD, Celsius S36, Define R6, u3415w