I'm trying to configure the wake on lan on a x299 using teamviewer

I can't get it to work at all and I don't know what to try anymore

I have Enable Power On by PCIE on uefi
fast startup is off
on network card wake on magic packet is checked on latest drivers

my router seems configured properly, when I send a wakeup request I can see the packet being received in the log
and I reserved the ipaddress so it should be sending it to the right address in the network.

the lan cable still flashes when in sleep mode

yet the pc stays asleep. I'm on windows 10

anything else I should be aware of, maybe some other bios settings?
TIA