The RAM is ~$100 on Newegg for 16 (2x8) GB from Corsair, good quality RAM, from what I understand. Definitely worth it. I have 16 GB (4x4 GB--I have i7), and I have used most of it. If you do multiple VM's, 6-8 GB simply woll not cut it. Toying (a little) with the idea of upping to 32 GB--when its ~$100 for 32 (4x8) GB. That, and a big SSD would make my G53SX scream!
Where did you find the i5 variant--I have never really heard of it. Before buying the G53SX, I looked at a bunch of variants (ASUS, you are worse than Microsoft at releasing 10^6 variants of the same product, 3-4 should be sufficient.), but never found the i5 in stores. What is the battery life like, I can get ~3 hrs of light CAD usage out of mine, with the screen dimmed down as far as it can go and the WiFi off--WiFi takes a load of power.