All newer desktop Windows versions have a sandboxed WinXP compatibility mode (and, lol, also DirectX 10+), and even the most stubbornly persistent software compatibility quirks can be fully resolved with a dedicated WinXP install running within a virtual machine or multi-boot.
Continuing to use an End-Of-Life OS (like Windows XP) is just asking for more and more limitations and incompatibilities with each subsequent hardware/driver release. This problem between XP and your new monitor is just a hint of many frustrations to come if you plan to mix-and-match cutting-edge and legacy technologies.
Personally, I prefer official driver support from NVidia/Asus/etc. Not unofficial workarounds, patches, and hacks (and compromises) to keep things barely going. Had enough of that in ancient WinNT and slackware/debian days.
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