If your MOBO is an R5E, then the first and third PCI-e slots are the ones you are supposed to be using when inserting two video cards because those particular slots (only) have 16 lanes. Also, if you are indeed using the 1st and 3rd slots like you say, then yes, you need to use your 3-way SLI bridge to connect your two video cards.
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