Billy,
As stated above you will probably not achieve 4500mhz on this board, a couple things you can try with the kit you have
Set to XMP then manually enter 4133mhz
Manually enter all settings for 4133mhz
VCCIO and VCCSA voltages are the settings you may need to manually enter for memory stability
I currently have a 4133mhz kit on a X Code with 1.38 vdim, VCCIO 1.22v, VCCSA 1.23v , these 3 voltages manually entered (AIDA64 reads VCCIO and VCCSA higher than manually set so don't be surprised as monitoring software is only so accurate), VCCIO and VCCSA may need up to 1.3v it is a process to test after you get the system to boot you need to test for stability, to high voltage can also cause instability