I have fixed it my self but it comes at cost of extra cpu usage from lightningservice.exe its already having 2% cpu usage so it will go up to 3% to 4%
Also it has to be done properly and the only way to do so is to run the aac cleaner that temporally breaks armoury crate slightly until checking for updates and then removes memory support, after that you install g.skill trident z rgb software the vision you need depends on if you have ryzen 5000 series cpu or not.
Bassicly you need 1.00.18 if you do not have ryzen 5000 cpu and 1.00.22 if you have the trident z software it self you do not have to run it in the background, i would highly recommend just disabling auto start on that.
First you need to run this.
https://www.gskill.us/forum/forum/product-discussion/ddr4/trident-z-rgb/163741-trident-z-lighting-co...This will make it so it uninstalls asus vision of rgb memory support, as side effect those it will also remove all the aac packages for your motherboard rgb gpu rgb etc as well altho those usually re appear after checking for updates inside armoury crate, it works for me it just does not re download memory support however, in this case tho its beneficial cos you do not want 2 rgb drivers installed cos that can cause some serious issues and i heard g skill has spd corruption issue so you defiantly do not wanna run into those kind of issues.
Next you install g skill own software but do not run it at startup it includes the aac package needed for memory to show up in aura creator as well
https://www.gskill.com/download/1502180912/1551690847/Trident-Z-Family-(RGB,-Royal,-Neo)if you have ryzen 5000 series cpu use 1.00.22 else 1.00.18 if you have intel based system you could try 1.00.22 as well but if it does not show up in aura creator for example you may need to uninstall that and re download 1.00.18
if all done correctly it should show up in both aura creator and armoury crate.
when 2 ene rgb packages are installed instead of just one you may end up with issues like rgb glitching out like a lot when opening something like hwinfo64 normally rgb effect just pauses couple of seconds then resumes when opening hwinfo64 if it glitches out you have 2 rgb software installed, if you uninstall trident z software it also uninstalls rgb driver required for armoury crate, if after reboot memory no longer shows up you only have 1 driver installed with trident z package you should be fine.
this can also resolve random colors appearing on sticks, the question is tho if its worth the extra cpu usage, hopefully asus fixes the aura service for memory sync soon never had extra cpu usage before.
If i fully uninstall tridentz software my self and uninstaller for armoury crate and do clean install of armoury crate, asus own ene rgb drivers for the g skills rgb works but memory does not show up for me either in aura creator and have random color appear on random stick randomly at times not mention 2% cpu usage instead of 0% like you should expect.